“They know, but we don’t talk about it.”

In recent years, queerness has somewhat become normalized. There are LGBTQ+ characters on almost every network television show and many notable public figures have come out as GSMs (Gender and/or Sexual Minorities). Many musicians are centering their projects around sexual fluidity, including Janelle Monáe, Frank Ocean, and Brockhampton. Whether people choose to identify as gay, bi, trans, or don’t distinctly choose to…